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One of the major factors contributing to Asian Male bitterness is no doubt the parents. Asian Parents are generally loving, caring, and doting; nevertheless, there are two very important factors that Asian "Asian parents and dating" have on their kids, especially their sons, that instill bitterness.

Academics Over Social Life The first factor is the pressure.

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Asian kids are consistently expected to do more and do better than their peers, and hell, even kids twice their age. Therefore, almost all Asian children 1 will play an instrument a dignified classical instrument at that, and certainly not electric guitar 2 will study math at an accelerated pace — I was doing calculus in "Asian parents and dating" school 3 will participate in as many extracurricular activities as possible all academic though, never sports and 4 take standardized tests early and as many times as necessary to achieve a perfect score.

This problem is only exacerbated by the Asian trait so common I swear it must be genetic to compare children. Obviously such academic pressure leaves no time for a social life. If dating is allowed, of course, the girlfriend must be Asian and must be smart though not as smart as you, of course, as that would hurt the Family Honor.

They can explain to you the Fundamental Theorem of Calculus but never grasp the fundamental rules of dating. These kids are disowned and never mentioned to the relatives. This trend continues into college somewhat, until about the age of 21 or so. Despite it all, Asian kids generally love their parents very much.

We respect family and our relatives. Asian kids take care of their parents long after other kids have shuffled their parents off to nursing homes. Inheriting Stereotypes The other area where Asian parents cause their sons no amount of grief is not really their fault. One common criticism to the points Asian parents and dating make on this site is something along the lines of: Asian men are sexist pigs who expect their wives to stay in the kitchen, not speak unless being spoken to, walk five paces behind their husband, and bear as many children as necessary until they give their husband a son!

And yet the view still holds. This assumption is fallacious as any Asian man born in America will likewise have seen how his grandfather has treated his grandmother and sworn never to do the same. Yet this will never help him because Asian parents and dating girls Asian parents and dating run away from him in needless fear.

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The end result is the same. This inheritance of stereotypes is insidious in large part because the Asian male can do nothing about it.

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He can treat all the girls he knows in as gentlemanly a manner as possible a move likely to put "Asian parents and dating" on the Friends Ladder — see the Ladder Theory in our Links for moreand still the average girl will be told, Asian parents and dating the stereotype.

Just wait until you have to cook his food and bear his sons.

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This stereotype is like saying that all Southerners must be racist, since not even fifty years ago blacks had to sit in the back of the bus and use separate water fountains Asian parents and dating while calling Southerners racist, like calling Asian men sexist, might still be true for some members of the population, it by no means holds true for everybody.

A Brief Sociological Experiment. Western Society Hates Us. A Brief Sociological Experiment Next post: The stakes are always high when you introduce your parents to a new boyfriend or girlfriend ― but let's be honest: The stakes are especially. Dating isn't mentioned Asian parents and dating the Asian household, and girls only come up as a topic of discussion if they're horrifically smart and if your parents.

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Asian women have to deal with race-related dating frustrations, too, including rampant What do your parents want for you in a partner?.

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